Thursday, January 20

TRUE ART OF ATTRACTION

How does he do it? Is it his fascinating conversation, or is he a celebrity? Is it her style and dress sense? answer; it is a combination of things, and surprisingly these are simple things-It is about the old-fashioned self-confidence which is show cased through body language. Simple put; it is the act of showing the world that you know who you are, likes being yourself and is eager to involve the world in your world, without any form of beign arrogant or pushy

Below Are 8 Super Ways To Naturally Attract Just About Anybody To Your World 


 BODY LANGUAGE
Men like to be approached from the side, while women would love to be approached from the front. if you are standing or sitting close to some one you like, try to lean towards that person and you can bet your gold ring that that person will also lean back at you if he/she likes you. you can start copying their movements like picking up your drink at the same time, if they respond equally then the message is mutual, you can lightly touch their arm to show interest, but you must avoid crossing your arms because that is a signal representing confrontation and hostility.

GET SMILING!
humans naturally are prone to visuals, when you mix talking and listening with smiling you are preaching warmth and friendliness and this will put other people at ease. Practice flashing the type type of smile that flatters you, look in the mirror and see the smile that best suites you and please do not wear an insincere or overdone smile.

CATCH THE EYE
Maintain eye contacts always, do not look around the room or allow your attention wander.Dilated pupils tell you fancy someone so keep the lights low, that is if the dilated pupils are not as a result of beign drunk!

DRESS SENSE
Men make use of their clothes to make specific statements, while women learn from a very young age to use clothes as camouflage or send sexual signals. Dressing to trill is one of the natural ways to send clean clear signals to attract.The key is to choose clothes you know you are comfortable in and that suites you. Always remember that less is more:

BE ATTENTIVE
You will win the day if   you are marked out as someone with good listening skills- which include etiquette, like do not stare! but look people in the eye, do not try to interrupt often when someone is talking,from time to time show them you are interested in their talk by asking brief questions. Just be attentive and you will let everyone that comes your way feel you are a sympathetic and intelligent conversationalist, though they have done all the talking!

COVER UP
Learn to curb your enthusiasm, play hard to get- be a little stand-offish,but also show warmth at the same time.Always take your partner flying over the moon with curiosity and they will have a solid relationship with you.

SHUT UP!!!
No one wants to hear about your ex-girlfriend`s sexual behavior, the fight you are having with your sister or your gynecological disorders or how much you owe your creditors. Never try to inflict your most intimate thoughts, experience and feelings on people.
                                                                    
ACT CONFIDENTLY
People respond to the mental image with you present them. Mumbling so that others cannot hear you distinctly, standing with sagging shoulders,lowering your head and looking as if you are unhappy will send a message to people that you love being left alone and they should not bother approaching you. Hold your head high and show the world that you are happy and content and avoid displaying unnecessary nervous habits like clucthing your fingers or shading your mouth with your hands

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